Before you start making any changes, it's important to assess your personal style and design preferences. Consider what you loved about your parents’ furniture and what you'd like to change – think about the things you liked and dislike. This will help you determine the direction you want to take with your decorating.

Research current trends in decorating fabrics, patterns, and colors. This will give you a good idea of what's popular and what you might want to incorporate into your space. Matchy matchy furniture is definitely out.

Take advantage of samples from fabric stores, so you can see and feel the materials before making any purchases. Samples will also allow you to see how different colors and patterns look in your home's lighting, which can help you make a more informed decision.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, start small. You can incorporate new fabrics into your décor by updating throw pillows, curtains, or upholstery. This will give you a feel for the new materials without completely overhauling your space.

When choosing new fabrics, consider how they will be used. If you're using a certain fabric for upholstery, make sure it's durable and easy to clean.

Don't be afraid to experiment with new patterns, colors, and textures. You never know what you might like until you try it, and sometimes stepping outside of your comfort zone can result in the most beautiful and surprising design elements. Matchy matchy is definitely out – feel free to add in a hot/loud chair next to a neutral sofa or settee.

When decorating your home, it's important to think about the future. Choose timeless designs and materials that you'll still love in 10 or 20 years.